Then tell her. Tell her this as easily as you told me. Tell her your fears and your worries. That you're training to not only learn what you can do, but how to control it as well. You must be honest with her in order to give her the chance to form her own opinion of you. Everybody has that right.

And if it turns out that she has to stop you, don't you want her to have a fighting chance at doing so?

[As for that last part of his, she'll just shake her head. They're already thick into the conversation about him. There's no going back.]