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Ranma Saotome (乱馬) ([personal profile] catsgothistongue) wrote in [community profile] shellphones2024-11-25 10:41 pm

TEXT // Looking to Cure Fear, Pls Help

Type: Text (Dated after Farplane event)
Sender ID: Anonymous
To: Public
Subject: Ranma's trying to cure his cat phobia
Warnings: Possible discussion of trauma, otherwise N/A

[After some recent... events that's transpired in the past couple months, events that left people he likes critically injured, it put a lot of things in perspective. Soul searching and all that junk. It... wasn't a new thought that popped up for the first time in this world, he's sat on it from time to time back home. But there, it didn't seem like there was constant events that'd set him off bad enough to maim his friends. Yet these past few months, he's kept falling into the Neko-ken state more and more, kept having his ailurophobia pushed to the tipping point. The cat island, the ghost cats, and now the black ooze of despair.

"Prevention is an important aspect, but I fear it may not be enough on its own.". Sherlock's words have been haunting his mind more recently from their talk of contingency plans. It staked his pride like a dagger to the heart. Control was something he should have, and he thought he had it all in check. For all his discipline, he can't get over being a scaredy-cat without losing his sanity.

He doesn't like considering this a viable option. Pop went out of his way to make sure he's adverse to showing weakness. This was something he should do though, before he goes above just clawing up people like fleshy scratch posts.]


Heya, I need some advice. For a friend. [... Look, you've gotta take baby steps sometimes when you're learning to walk.]

How do you get over a fear you've had since you were a kid?

[Vague, nondescript baby steps.]
telepathicignorance: (Default)

Anonymous

[personal profile] telepathicignorance 2024-11-26 06:42 am (UTC)(link)
You're know the for a friend excuse is older than most of the people here, right?

(Asshole gotta asshole.)

Desensitization can work. Either exposing the person to the feared thing in small controlled amounts where nothing bad happens or just learning about it, like watching videos or reading books.
telepathicignorance: (Judge)

Private

[personal profile] telepathicignorance 2024-12-01 04:16 am (UTC)(link)
(Look Ranma, they know that trick. They've let people assume their villain self is a he in order to distance them from their civilian identity.

In fact, it's that sudden inclusion of pronouns, alongside the apparent intensity of the fear and the mention of an old man that has them switching over to private and:)


And is she female all the time? Because this sounds really familiar.
telepathicignorance: (Nosepinch)

Still private, no longer anonymous

[personal profile] telepathicignorance 2024-12-22 08:49 am (UTC)(link)
I only know of one person here who has an uncontrollable fear caused or worsened by their shit dad fucking around, Ranma. And I've used the 'pretend to use a different pronoun' trick before too.
Edited 2024-12-22 08:53 (UTC)
telepathicignorance: (Thoughtful)

[personal profile] telepathicignorance 2024-12-22 09:10 am (UTC)(link)
Not necessarily. Some people use all of them.

But anyway: I'm not sure regular methods for getting over a fear will help here.
telepathicignorance: (Default)

[personal profile] telepathicignorance 2024-12-22 09:33 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah. It's not common, but it happens.

(Yeah, they know Ranma is kinda ignorant about all this stuff. He at least tries though, which is more than they can say about a lot of the people who aren't utterly uneducated.)

Maybe, but I don't think it's just a fear of cats that you're dealing with. Treating it as such is probably counterproductive.
telepathicignorance: (Thoughtful)

[personal profile] telepathicignorance 2024-12-22 10:30 am (UTC)(link)
(And for someone who comes from a world so rigid about gender, he is doing remarkably well figuring things out.)

Yeah but I don't think it's just being afraid of cats. I mean, think about it. Your dad basically abandoned you and threw you in a hole because he thought it would make you stronger. You don't think other fears like being too weak or being abandoned might be tied up in this too?
Edited 2024-12-22 10:30 (UTC)
telepathicignorance: (Facepalm)

[personal profile] telepathicignorance 2024-12-22 11:04 am (UTC)(link)
(Somewhere, they're sighing.)

Nevermind.

(Sidestep does not have the patience or the ability to explain that trauma works differently from phobias, and that the triggering fear may not be as important as the other emotions involved when actually trying to fix the fear in question.

They may not even be right about that stuff.

...This is stupid.)
telepathicignorance: (SIGH)

[personal profile] telepathicignorance 2024-12-24 07:45 am (UTC)(link)
Except you just said the simple solution doesn't work.

(Fuck. They can't just ditch Ranms to deal with this on his own, even if they want to.

They sigh.)


Think of it like you're fighting a villain and his henchmen. Yeah the big guy is the one calling the shots and the source of the problems, but he's got a bunch of smaller guys making it super difficult for you to land a hit.
telepathicignorance: (Thoughtful)

[personal profile] telepathicignorance 2024-12-25 12:47 pm (UTC)(link)
(As far as Sidestep is concerned, they're actually a horrible friend who is betraying him even now, but Ranma is free to keep thinking that.)

Something like that, yeah.
astudyinviolet: Sherlock looking at the words on the ground (⩜ Uh'eor way bugahagl ah shogg)

not here

[personal profile] astudyinviolet 2024-11-26 07:09 am (UTC)(link)
[ Sherlock is keeping an eye on this post in case he might find something which can help him with the crippling fear of water he's had since a child. ]
astudyinviolet: chibi scruffy Sherlock looking haunted (ϙ R'luhhor ahh ya)

still not here

[personal profile] astudyinviolet 2024-11-28 07:40 am (UTC)(link)
[ Fuck you, Ranma /throws it in his playlist because the vibes ]
empyrean_mirror: (31)

[personal profile] empyrean_mirror 2024-11-26 03:24 pm (UTC)(link)
[For a friend. yea, sure, okay, but.]

I guess it depends on the fear in question. I've read that repeated controlled exposure--where nothing awful happens--can help, but that's probably not gonna work for things like thunder or heights or the ocean.
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[personal profile] empyrean_mirror 2024-11-28 07:43 am (UTC)(link)
[Unfortunately Ranma he only knows one person with an incredibly shitty dad that he's been told about anyway so his eyes just narrowed at his screen.]

what happened?
empyrean_mirror: (19)

[personal profile] empyrean_mirror 2024-11-28 07:56 am (UTC)(link)
Laughing is the farthest thing from my mind right now, I promise.
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[personal profile] empyrean_mirror 2024-11-29 06:35 pm (UTC)(link)
[There is a very long pause between messages. It's probably a good thing this is in text so Ranma is not privy to what Kaveh may have just called his father.]

That's why you...become cat-like when you can't get away from them, then?

I don't know about a cure but I'd sure like to figure out what's wrong with your father's mind.
octoblot: (and I'm afraid)

un: octoblot

[personal profile] octoblot 2024-11-28 11:04 pm (UTC)(link)
It depends on the fear, but some will say exposure therapy (in a controlled environment) is one way to try to learn how to confront and surpass that fear. However, one can also learn breathing techniques or meditation tricks that will allow a person to react to a situation involving said fear with calm focus, even if it might not necessarily remove your fear of said situation completely.

[There's a pause, and then--]

Or, I suppose I could try to create a potion that will remove that fear entirely for a brief period of time, if you have reason to believe that none of the above is feasible for you.
octoblot: (your voice)

[personal profile] octoblot 2024-12-22 08:23 pm (UTC)(link)
[wow, why does everyone immediately assume that azul has some nefarious catch attached to things he offers here... even if ranma is correct that there technically is one...]

Well, that depends entirely on how much you are willing to pay or what you'd offer as a trade for it--the ingredients I need to prepare a potion like this do cost money, after all.
octoblot: (and go ahead and sign the scroll)

[personal profile] octoblot 2024-12-26 12:22 am (UTC)(link)
[He doesn't know Ranma well enough to actually know what valuable items or abilities the other man may have, save for the small glimpse he got of his prowess while they had been taking care of that gun wielding squirrel bounty.

But, for now, he simply offers (insert price here) asking for payment in the form of doubloons--a little pricey, but not break the bank worthy. It's enough to pay for the ingredients needed to prepare the potion, plus extra for Azul's efforts in doing so.]


Would this be considered good enough for you?
Edited 2024-12-26 00:22 (UTC)
octoblot: (it's a talent I always have possessed)

no worries! it happens to the best of us

[personal profile] octoblot 2025-01-16 03:26 am (UTC)(link)
[Azul's a businessman, so he can respect the haggling. And it's not an unreasonable offer to make here, so...]

If you are able to acquire the ingredients and bring them to me, then yes, I will consider bringing the price down a little more since this will certainly be very helpful in making sure I can prepare what you need in a timely manner.
octoblot: (Default)

[personal profile] octoblot 2025-01-16 01:54 pm (UTC)(link)
[Azul will proceed to send a list of ingredients needed (probably mostly plants that can be found growing around the place or acquired through shops, a few vials of this or that of "water from the purest lake you can find, not any from the sea" and other liquids type of fetch questing) and an address for where his workshop is for the other man to bring the ingredients to.]

If you have any difficulties in acquiring something on this list, please let me know.
bountyfull: malagraphic (sixty)

un: bountyfull

[personal profile] bountyfull 2024-11-29 10:06 pm (UTC)(link)
[ He's not going to say "sure, for a friend" because it's kind of rude but he's onto you, guy. ]

You've gotten a lot of answers, but if you want help and need a volunteer sometime, I don't mind lending a hand.
stillarhino: edit by <user name="anonabelle" site="tumblr"> (96 ☠ when we were young and free)

un: stillarhino

[personal profile] stillarhino 2024-11-30 01:45 pm (UTC)(link)
[Unlike the rest, Beat believes that this really is for their friend! Whoever's behind this seems to be a good one if they're looking out for them like that.]

guess it depends what your friends afraid of
and how scared they is about whatever it is
Edited 2024-11-30 13:45 (UTC)
stillarhino: (39 ☠ and build it up again)

[personal profile] stillarhino 2025-01-03 12:57 pm (UTC)(link)
[Wow. Whoever this is sure is taking their sweet time? Maybe they don't really want to spill their friend's secret?]

dogs? sounds normal to me
they get bit or something?