anon ⊗ dating advice

[flamekthunder]

Type: Text
Sender ID: anonymous (Eustace)
To: Everyone
Subject: first date help!!
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uwaaa we're going on our first date but i've never been on one before!! what should i do?? we're going to the dragon's gale but like i want them to have a good time!! we've been friends for so long how can i make it special so it's not like another day out?? 😫😫😫😫

any advice appreciated thanks!!!! 🥰🥰🥰

[There's a reason why this is anonymous.

Already regretting his decision, Eustace grimaces in disgust typing this hideous thing. But he doesn't want bothersome questions about himself and [redacted], and he knows he's out of his element here. Since he doesn't know anyone personally to ask and he definitely doesn't want [redacted] to see it, he's just going to cover all his tracks and inflict self-torture as he channels someone from his world to pretend as. thanks Beatrix he hates this so much]

Comments

[netherese]

Best to start simple, then. Not every effort has to be something new and surprising— start with what's tried and true. Do you know what their favorite flower is?

Remember, the classics are classic for a reason!

[flamekthunder]

the classics...like flowers, chocolate, a dinner?

idk that sounds kind of

lame

[Sorry Gale—]

[netherese]

[Ouch?

But also, he's been the lover of an actual goddess, so he's not about to let a little remark like that get to him.]

Well, I wouldn't say all of those are necessary at once. The outing is planned around the festival, yes? Start with flowers when you meet, but the Dragon's Gale itself will do the heavy lifting. With that sort of destination in mind, it really shouldn't be terribly difficult to ensure you both enjoy yourselves, but it is a good idea to defer to your date and what parts they might like to participate in.

[flamekthunder]

hmm that's true! i wouldn't want them to be bored and not like what we do.

is it better to just plan it out with them or surprise? 🤔

[netherese]

I like a bit of cautious spontaneity, myself. You're well-prepared for it, having chosen a venue that will offer all sorts of entertainment, and I daresay you'll both enjoy yourself far more if you're able to relax. If you were hosting a dinner, I would say take more time in the planning and finer details, but it sounds as though you and your friend are already well aware of the fact that you enjoy spending time together. This time needn't be any different, except that it will be more honest.

Surprises themselves can be very romantic, however. Perhaps plan one for the end of the evening, such as taking them to enjoy the view in a spot you've come to favor, or offering a small gift.

[flamekthunder]

oooh those are really good ideas!! especially the surprise at the end!!

i might be able to find something to wow them with for sure 🤩🤩

[None of the "excitement" in the text is reflected in his quite calm face, but he is definitely taking some mental notes.

Being honest...and some kind of surprise... Things he thinks he could do.]

[netherese]

[The star eyes are...

Well, he loves the enthusiasm.]

I'm certain you'll find just the thing. It needn't be large or overblown, but a simple and sincere gesture can leave a lasting impression.

Of course, if you want to go big, by all means, I'm hardly one to discourage a grand gesture, but it does sound as though you're hoping to ease into things. Nevertheless, I confess to being a hopeless romantic. I truly hope you and your special someone have a most splendid time!

[flamekthunder]

[Embrace them Gale. Because Eustace isn't.]

HMMM no i don't think i'll go big 🤔 don't want to overwhelm them!!

i wish i was more romantic...would make this easier 😣😣😣

[He can be a little honest.]

[netherese]

I have a strong feeling this friend of yours will be glad to spend time with you just as you are. That's how it's been so far, yes?

[If only Gale were as good at taking his own advice as he was at pointing out what he feels to be the obvious...]

Besides, romance is hardly one-size-fits-all! What suits me might ill-suit another entirely! You will find what feels right for the both of you, I'm sure. That you're so invested in their enjoyment speaks well of your character. Being able to put your partner first is invaluable.

[flamekthunder]

at least i have that going for me... 😣 but you're right!!! i'll just have to see what makes them happy! 😤😤

[netherese]

Best of luck with your endeavors! I do hope you'll report back and let us know how things went, yes? All those offering advice are invested in your success!

[flamekthunder]

hehe we'll see~ maybe i'll keep it a mystery 😜😜